mtl008 Chapter 364: Her one sentence caused thousands of people to surge
Chapter 364: Her one sentence caused thousands of people to surge
There was a suppressed and tense discussion in the venue, which was buzzing and more intense and prolonged than any previous game discussion.
When I was discussing and sharing with friends and family in a low voice, I could also hear the deliberately lowered voices of the audience next to me.
It's like raindrops hitting the ground, creating all kinds of ripples that collide with each other.
Everyone gradually discovered that it was not just them, but others as well!
No matter how different the experiences are, the conclusion is the same: it turns out that everyone has had this mood and feeling.
In an environment dominated by repression, it is difficult to talk about bad moods, even to your closest family and friends.
the reason is simple.
If the child sneezes a few times, the parents will hurriedly tell him that he has a cold and needs to take medicine! If they see that the child does not take the medicine, they will urge him to take the medicine or call him to go to the hospital for an IV drip.
On the one hand, there is worry, and on the other hand, some parents actually feel a little bit afraid and irritated in their hearts.
If you are really sick, you will probably say: I told you to wear more clothes, I told you to go to bed early, I told you...
Or another sentence structure: It’s all your fault, it’s because of what you did…
This is true for non-illnesses and minor illnesses, let alone a disease that can turn into a monster?
Most people would be afraid and stay away when they see someone in a bad mood, for fear that this person might mutate if they are not careful.
Whether it is the elders or the peers, they all think: "Is this a serious disease that can be prevented, but you don't pay attention, you can't do it, so you will get it?"
"Why can't you control yourself? You are too sensitive. You are weak. You just think too much..." This kind of blame.
"Okay, stop thinking like that, stop it now, you can't go on like this..." This kind of persuasion.
People become frustrated and think: Yes, the problem is all my fault. I can’t resist the bad mood, it’s my fault.
The best way to deal with all the grievances and frustrations is to keep them in your heart.
Who would tell anyone else?
No one cares how you got sick, they just want you to get better quickly.
But many people suddenly found that they were both victims and perpetrators at the same time.
It turns out that I have subconsciously agreed with this idea and treat my family, friends and strangers in the same way.
When facing others, I always say, "It's okay, don't think too much about it." That's all I say.
When everyone thought of these things, their hearts suddenly became choked up and their bodies tensed up, as if they were sinking.
But I suddenly woke up, and my heart was beating with alarm bells. No, I can't think like this. If my emotions get serious...
I don't know when the garbage mountain will collapse and be buried by it...
At this time, before the previous bad idea has subsided, the next one comes up.
In the tug and tug of war between 'no', 'can't do it' and 'force myself to do it', emotions I've never experienced before and emotions that were buried in the past all merged together.
Self-blame, fear, shame, anger, sadness, desire, grievance, unwillingness...
Zuo Xiuyan's words seemed to have opened a gap, allowing all kinds of surging emotions to find a way out and rush out!
The emotions of close people will affect those around them, and the depressed emotions of many people will make people feel that the environment is depressing.
The whole place was filled with a depressed mood, and the awakened people who were protecting their safety were suddenly shocked! What was she going to do? This was very dangerous!
Are you trying to pollute a door opener?
Some of them were ready to deploy machines to prevent the audience from mutating, while the other awakened ones had their sharp eyes locked on Zuo Xiuyan, ready to interrupt her at any time.
Zuo Xiuyan didn't say anything for a while, giving everyone time to communicate, feel and think.
She knows very well what most people think.
Looking at the audience in the distance, she, who had not spoken a word, said softly, "It's okay."
Her words interrupted at just the right moment, allowing people to slightly escape from their previous emotions.
The audience looked up at the screen, and it was as if her eyes were staring at them, which gave them a sense of peace of mind.
Her expression and tone, her identity as an awakener, her strength and wisdom, everything brought the power to make people believe in her.
Everyone finally reacted belatedly. Her few words evoked the memories and emotions of tens of thousands of people, and her words calmed them down.
"Emotions are like water, and your mind is the pool. If you don't let it in and block it, it will come out from somewhere else and mess up your mind."
"So, why not let it flow out quietly, and then we can control the direction it will eventually go."
Everyone felt a sense of peace and naturalness. Neither in her words nor in her person did she show any avoidance of bad emotions.
It seemed as if she thought this was a simple matter, like arranging a bookshelf, being the master of her emotions, arranging their comings and goings.
But is it really that simple? People cannot control their thoughts. Unless their minds are empty, what they should have will still exist.
And will that pipe really not flow everywhere?
Zuo Xiuyan seemed to have seen through everyone's thoughts and said, "It's not about eradicating them, nor is it about ignoring them completely. What I mean by letting them go is to get along with them."
Many people are confused, neither this nor that? How can they be said to be like humans? How can emotions be related?
"All emotions should not be divided into good or bad," she continued.
“Positive emotions are like fire, while negative emotions are like ice. There is no absolute right, just different manifestations of energy.”
"When you are scolded, you will feel angry, ashamed, or something else. It's just like when you are poked, you will withdraw your hand. Where there is stimulation, there is a reaction."
“Emotions are connected responses to external stimuli.”
"Negative emotions are annoying, but they also have benefits. Fear can keep us away from dangerous things, and anxiety can make us think about ways to improve or be motivated."
As the audience listened quietly, they started to discuss again: "It seems like what she said makes sense."
“These negative emotions actually have benefits?”
Zuo Xiuyan asked: "And is it true that everyone has the same bad emotions?"
"If everyone is fired by the company and loses their job, will everyone have the same thoughts?"
Everyone thought about it for a moment, and then they agreed with what she said next: "Some people will feel that they have lost their value, that they have been denied, that they will have a hard time in the future, and that they may even think that this matter will be laughed at."
"But some people think that if it's lost, it's lost. The boss of the company can't continue to run the business, so they can take advantage of this time to sleep in and eat something delicious."
"If people feel that this is not immersive, then what if someone steps on your foot or hits you in a car, but the other person doesn't apologize?"
"Some people think it's a small matter and just laugh it off, while others will be filled with anger at the other party's attitude but just don't dare to show it."
"Everyone has different emotions about the same thing."
Everyone was even more puzzled after hearing this. It is because everyone has different views on things, which affect their behavior, that everyone should be tolerant and understanding, optimistic and open-minded, and should be restrained?
“The way to solve a problem is to first understand how the problem came about.”
“Therefore, it is easier to solve and face the problem if we find out the cause of the bad mood.”
“Imagine that a person is a program. Input A, and C will be produced.”
"Then every time event A occurs, emotion and behavior C will appear. If you don't change this output pattern, as long as an event similar to A occurs, this person will inevitably have emotion and behavior of type C."
"To some extent, it's like a person's destiny. He will definitely think this way and do these things, so the result and the future are also foreseeable at a glance."